Monday, June 11, 2012

5 Things Father's Do Best From Focus on the Family

Here are five things you may not have known about dads:
This Father’s Day, instead of handing
Dad another tie, thank him for making a
difference in your life — in ways you may
not have known about . . . until now.

1 Fathers teach us empathy
A study by the American Psychological
Association found that children with very involved
fathers are more likely to be sensitive to the needs
of others. Effective dads also helped their children
become more generous and thoughtful too.
2 Fathers give us confidence
Fathers are more likely to challenge their
children to try difficult things by taking safe and
measured risks. Research shows that a man’s more
physical play style — and slower response to help
his children through frustrating situations —
encourages problem-solving and self-confidence
in both boys and girls.
3 Fathers increase our vocabulary
Children who spend lots of time with Dad
are more likely to have larger and more complex
vocabularies. That’s because fathers are more likely
to speak to their children as they would an adult.
This often initiates a vocabulary lesson.
4 Fathers protect us from crime and violence
You’re not likely to find well-fathered boys
in gangs. A father’s affirmation fulfills the need
that makes gang life attractive. Likewise, girls
with good fathers are not as likely to be sexually
active, having already experienced the wholesome,
fatherly love of a good dad.
5 Fathers promote better treatment of women
Find a young woman who won’t be victimized
sexually, emotionally or financially, and we’ll show
you a woman who most likely has a good dad.
Even when a good dad stumbles, if Mom calls him
on it and he responds like a gentleman, the kids
take note.
5 things As we celebrate Father’s Day, we should recognize
that fatherhood is not merely a sentimental role,
but a profoundly important one too.

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